Yes, You Should Have High Standards in Dating — But It’s Not What You Think

Yes, you should have high standards in dating. However, having high standards as a high-value, feminine woman does not mean judging/choosing men based on:

  • What career they have

  • How much money they have

  • How they dress

  • What they look like

  • What qualities/traits they have

  • What religion/faith they are

  • What political party they support

  • How many things they have in common with you


What High Standards Really Mean

Having high standards as a high value, feminine woman means setting the following standards for yourself:

  • They must have the same core values as you (eg. marriage, kids, long-term commitment)

  • They must make you FEEL the way you want to feel in a relationship (eg. feminine, soft, taken care of, protected, fulfilled)

And not settling for anything less than that.


How to Set High Standards in a Feminine Way

When getting clear on what you want in a man, do not make a list of all the qualities and attributes he should have. Instead, write down your core values, and all the ways you want a man to make you FEEL in your body, and use THAT as your guide and your ‘standard’.


Want to Dive Deeper?

In my Masculine Energy Magnet coaching program, we go beyond superficial qualities and work on aligning you with your core values and feelings. By doing this, you will attract men who lead, protect, and commit.


My Approach

In my coaching, I teach women how to embody their feminine energy while being clear about their standards. You will:

  • Learn to focus on how a man makes you feel rather than his status or career.

  • Get clear on your non-negotiable values.

  • Practice communicating your standards in a feminine and authentic way that inspires masculine men to step up.


If this sounds like something you’re ready to explore, book a FREE discovery session with me to see if we’re a good fit to work together. Let’s get you attracting high-quality, masculine energy men.

Love, Isla x
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