Why You Keep Attracting ‘Soft’ Men (and How to Change It)
Do you find that most of the men you come across are ‘soft’? They appear to be completely devoid of testosterone. You speak to them and they have no opinion, no assertiveness, no vision.
You find these soft boys repulsive. But it seems like they are everywhere. You’re left wondering, ‘Why do I keep attracting these men? Where am I going wrong?’. You are DYING to be led by a man, but the same effeminate men keep showing up.
Let’s delve into why this is happening and how you can shift your energy to attract the assertive, masculine men you desire.
Why Do You Keep Attracting ‘Soft’ Men?
Here’s the truth: the reason you keep attracting these passive men has everything to do with energy.
Whether you realise it or not, you’re probably unknowingly in your masculine energy in your dating life. When you’re used to taking charge, making decisions, and being the leader in your life, that masculine energy tends to spill over into your dating life as well. And when you’re in your masculine energy, you naturally attract men who are more feminine — men who are comfortable letting you take the reins because that’s the energy dynamic you’re putting out.
So when you find yourself always attracting men who don’t lead, it’s not because something is wrong with you. It’s because the energy you’re projecting is inviting passive, feminine men into your life.
How to Shift Your Energy and Attract Masculine Men
The good news is, you can change this. By tapping into your natural feminine energy, you’ll start attracting the kind of masculine men who take the lead. These men are confident, assertive, and eager to step into the role of leader in the relationship.
What is feminine energy? It’s about being open, receptive, and embracing your natural softness. Feminine energy is the opposite of striving and controlling. It’s about being rather than doing. When you allow yourself to be in this space, you create room for a masculine man to step into his own power and lead.
This doesn’t mean you have to lose your independence or change who you are. It simply means understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energy — and how embracing your feminine side creates a magnetic pull that naturally draws in strong, masculine men.
The Difference It Makes
Once you make this shift, everything changes. You’ll notice that the men you attract are no longer passive or “soft.” Instead, you’ll start attracting men with masculine energy who take care of you, protect you, want to lead, and have a clear vision for their life and your relationship.
This transformation will change your entire dating experience.
Ready to Attract Healthy, Masculine Men?
If you’re tired of dating soft and weak men and ready to attract healed, masculine men who can lead with confidence and strength, it’s time to make a shift in your energy.
Click here to book a free discovery call, and let’s talk about how you can start embodying your feminine energy and attracting the type of man you truly desire. Trust me — it changes everything.
