Inspire His Masculine by Making This Shift in How You Speak
Today, I want to share a simple yet powerful shift in communication that can help your man be in his true masculine.
It all starts with how you speak.
Focus less on THOUGHTS and FACTS (ie. what you’re THINKING, what you DID, where you WENT, who you SAW, etc. (all of which are facts and thoughts).
And instead, focus on sharing your FEELINGS, sensations, and emotions in your BODY with your man and with EVERY ONE!
The more you practice this, the more natural it will become - like learning a new language!
Talking about THOUGHTS and FACTS (eg. what you DID today, who you SAW, what you THINK about a certain topic) is all MASCULINE energy.
And in order to inspire the masculine energy in a man and attract masculine energy men, you need to be in your feminine energy.
For example…
When a man asks how your day was, you might be used to answering FACTUALLY:
It was busy. I was working in the morning. Then I had to go pick up the kids. Then I met Lisa later in the afternoon and we went shopping together.
These are all FACTS about what you DID, which is masculine energy.
Talking about FEELINGS is feminine energy.
For example, how you FELT about what you did today, how you FEEL about your plans for the weekend, what you FEEL about a certain topic.
For example…
When a man asks how your day was…
It felt really fun to go shopping with Lisa today. How about you?
OR…
I felt proud of myself after finishing a project in work that I’ve been working on for a while. How was your day?
It must be from your BODY, not your head.
Make sure the feeling you are describing after the words ‘I feel/I felt/it feels/it felt’ is an EMOTION, FEELING, or PHYSICAL SENSATION in your BODY, rather than saying ‘I feel like…’ or ‘I feel that…’ For example: ‘I feel relaxed’. ‘My heart feels heavy’. ‘I feel warm’. etc.
If you’re ready to be more in your feminine energy, and help your man be in his true masculine…
1. Follow me here on social media (I’m on TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, & Youtube)
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3. Book a FREE Discovery Call with me here: Book a Free Discovery Session
Love,
Isla x