How My Client Started Attracting Better Men in Just 30 Days

Are you attracting the wrong men?

That was the reality for one of my clients before she met me.

When this client came to me she had a pattern of attracting hot and cold-type men and men who were in their feminine energy.

In just 30 days of coaching, she experienced a remarkable shift in her dating life, moving from attracting these kind of men to attracting men who made her feel valued, special, important, and safe.

Here’s how she did it:

1. WE CRAFTED A FEMININE ENERGY DATING PROFILE

She went from having a masculine energy dating profile, which will turn off masculine energy men, to a feminine energy one, attracts healthy protector/provider men, who are looking for a serious relationship, and inspires them to get in touch with you.

2. WE GOT CLEAR ON HER RELATIONSHIP HAPPY EVER AFTER

She went from having a ‘checklist’ of what she wants in a man, to focusing on how she wants to FEEL with him, and got clear on what her non-negotiables are (eg. he must want marriage and children).

3. SHE STARTED TALKING FROM HER FEELINGS

She went from talking about facts and her thoughts a lot with men (eg. what she is DOING or THINKING), and started focusing on sharing FEELINGS and EMOTIONS with them instead.

For example, instead of saying I like baking, she would say I feel excited when I’m baking.

Your feelings are what draw masculine men to you, not what you’re doing or thinking.

4. SHE STARTED BEING OPEN TO ALL MEN

She went from looking for attraction or chemistry to being open to ALL men, including ones outside her usual ‘type’.

Initial ‘sparks’ with a man is often a sign that they resemble characteristics of exes or caregivers that hurt us, and on a subconscious level, we seek to recreate those relationships because they feel familiar and therefore, ‘safe’, to us.

Being open to ALL men, even the ‘boring’ ones, breaks that pattern.

5. WE SHIFTED HER BELIEFS

She went from believing that she couldn’t find a ‘real’ relationship on Bumble, to feeling confident that she can find a real relationship anywhere.

Our subconscious mind works tirelessly to find evidence of the beliefs we hold, so it is important to choose beliefs that align with our desires, and that we WANT to be true.

6. WE DID INNER CHILD HEALING

She went from feeling like she couldn’t trust herself, that her decisions weren’t good, and that she was going to choose the wrong man, and wanting to run away, escape from, and shut down from men, to having more trust in herself and feeling safer to be open and vulnerable with men, regardless of the situation, even when they are triggering her.

7. SHE FOLLOWED MY DATING SCRIPTS

She went from not knowing how to respond to men to having feminine energy scripts for all the common dating scenarios that she can use with every man over and over again, allowing the dating process to feel relaxing for her, while at the same time keeping the right men interested.

8. SHE STAYED IN THE UNCOMFORTABLE

She went from ‘doing’ something to make her uncomfortable feelings go away (thinking, analysing, sending a man a message, distracting herself, etc.) to staying in the discomfort.

Staying in the uncomfortable, without doing anything to make it go away, is what allows us to break old, unhelpful patterns, and form new ones that move us in the direction of our Happy Ever After.

9. SHE GOT OUT OF HER HEAD AND INTO HER BODY

She went from thinking a lot, analysing a lot, trying to figure things out, planning, problem-solving, organising, etc. to bringing her attention into her body and FEELING, allowing her intuition/gut instinct to guide her.

Masculine energy is in the head.

Feminine energy is in the body.

And your feminine energy is what attracts consistent, emotionally available, provider men to you.

10. SHE SET BOUNDARIES

She went from priorisiting what a man wants and putting HIM first to setting boundaries and putting HERSELF first.

She learned to communicate these boundaries in a strong, empowered AND warm and soft way and to feel confident when doing so.

If you're ready to transform your dating life and change what you’re attracting…

1. Follow me here on social media (I’m on TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, & Youtube)

2. Download my FREE 3 Steps to Make a Man Feel Appreciated.

3. Book a FREE Discovery Call with me here: Book a Free Discovery Session

Love,

Isla x