The First Step to Inspiring Him to be More in His Masculine
In every relationship, there’s a dance of energies.
To help your man be in his true masculine, getting him to take the lead while you feel relaxed, soft, and feminine, the first crucial step is getting clear on what your Relationship Happy Ever After looks like.
How Do You Want to FEEL in a Relationship?
This isn’t just about your current relationship, but any relationship in general. Your happy ever after is all about YOU. How do you want a man to make you FEEL (eg. loved, safe, cherished, etc.)?
What’s your happy ever after ‘headline’? What are your core values?
Examples of your ‘headline’ and core values include:
“I want marriage and kids.”
“I want a long-term committed relationship but living separately.”
“I want marriage but no kids. And I want monogamy”.
“I want kids but I don’t want to get married”.
etc.
Why Clarifying Your Happy Ever After is Essential
Here are three reasons why this clarity is necessary:
1. Vision Drives Reality
It is statistically proven that when you have a clear vision of what you want, you are FAR more likely to achieve it.
Your detailed picture of your happy ever after becomes a guiding star, leading you towards the relationship you desire.
2. Relieve Energetic Pressure
Instead of focusing on what your partner needs to do to make you happy, making it all about YOU and how YOU want to feel takes the energetic pressure off him.
This shift allows you to accept him fully and creates a space where he can naturally be in his masculine energy, free from the weight of expectations.
3. Communicate Your Desires
Your partner cannot lead you to your happy ever after if he doesn’t know what it is.
Sharing your vision clearly allows him to understand your desires and aspirations.
The feminine energy shines the light on where she wants to go, and the masculine energy takes her hand and leads them both there.
Seeking Clarity and Support
Want complete clarity on what your relationship happy ever after looks and feels like so you can get there fast?
Need support in sharing the stuff you want with your partner in a feminine and calm way that is not telling him what to do?
Book a free discovery session with me to see if you’re a good fit for my 1:1 relationship coaching program, Inspire His Masculine.
This program will help you achieve clarity and communicate effectively, nurturing the dynamic where your partner can lead.
